You choose someone as your heir in real life before even you get old. So in game its just ''Choose a new character'' screen. So dont worry. Good they delay because it gives you right up until the line for a child to make it to being an adult, and be chosen. Starting a character at 18 would be great.
Hi! So I got a notification that a courier brought a marriage offer for my brother Niasen to someone. The offer is to marry Mesui (which is good in my opinion right?) I'm just wondering, apart from a good rep boost with her, what do I gain from letting him go with her? I usually go all in on stewardship and put the remaining skillspoints in smithing. He already has decent skills in everything, so no need to distribute skillpoints. Afaik he is best used as super quartermaster. If you give him an early wife, he will also reproduce when you stay in a city to recover stamina from smithing. x2Qfqae.